Dating double standards.

[optimus prime]

So I've recently started seeing a new girl.. she has an amazing body, beautiful face, extremily intelligent demeaner, very caring personality, seems like a real keeper...

But through picking her brain and asking the right questions it seems as though shes been around a bit...

and by a bit I mean I think shes had a LOT of ex-boyfriends and casual sex.

Which automatically is a turn off to me thinking well fuck, I'm not a big fan of dating sluts, I fuck em and leave em.. But then I think, fuck, what have I been doing over the last year of being single... partying my ass off fucking every hot bitch with a pulse and a working vagina, so shes basically getting what I'm getting..

This girl is screwing with my head.. On one hand I want to take my relationship with her seriously and not just be casual and poke a stick at it like i usually do with women cause I've never met a chick this cool before (did i mention shes a massage theropist aswell?)... But on the other hand I'm turned off by her previous air of sluttyness and baggage. She also seems to hang out with her ex's frequently and holds supposidly totally plutonic friendships with some of them.

I am in a paradoxial state with a major connundrum and not that I'm enjoying the sharing.. I'm wondering if anyone has found themselves in a similar situation before? I mean am I head fucking myself based on a double standard that I should be more accepting of?

Or should I adhere to my turn offs and search for the perfect girl without a history of baggage? does that bitch even exist?

Whats the general concensus RB?

[Chris Black]

Past promiscuity shouldn't be a turn-off. Just set ground rules. If you want her to be exclusive to you now, and vis-versa, just say it. If that's now what she wants, move on. Don't play the mind games. Get everything in plain English.

[Sting3r]

[B]fucking every hot bitch with a pulse and a working vagina[/B

As opposed to what? A dead transexual?




Oh BTW, dumping a girl b/c she has sex expierience?
WHAT?

In bed

Expierienced woman with less than 100 sexual encounters > Missionary posistion with hot dumb ass

[optimus prime]

I actually am a bit of a fan of the missionary position with hot dumbass chicks...


I'm easy going now, but I think in times to come I'm definatly gonna cut her ties to her ex boyfriends... I'm really not keen on her telling me "oh yeah, I just been hanging out with my ex, lets meet up tonight" ...

That shit I'll put my foot down on later.. Hell I actually havnt known her for fuck all time at the moment so really its like we fell into a relationship like BOOM within a few days...

Chris black, word.. thats more or less my thoughts... But I tip toe around such issues at this moment because of the small time I've known her... I dont wanna fuck something that could turn out to be the right thing by being an up front asshole from the get go....

[WareProductions]

she still fuckin her ex!

just let it be. if its gonna work, its gonna work. regardless of what "title" you put on it.

its too early to be gettin all googlie eyed homie. sounds like the game is strong with that one. shell prolly make you buy her shit.

[optimus prime]

Hell nah...

Her game is strong I admit.. I've met a match, thats why were so good together...

But no, I'm no sucker... I'm currantly unemployed.. So the buying things notion is right out the window.. girl likes me for me...

[optimus prime]

As for still fucking her ex...

I'm concearned.... I'm gonna make her end that when (and if) we get more serious....

[Chris Black]

ChrisBlack Lives (9:58:46 AM): True. I still haven't talked much to the 17-year-old I told you about.
ChrisBlack Lives (9:59:10 AM): She's sexy as hell to me. I should be ashamed of my self, but I'm too arrogant to be.
SmokaJoka666 (9:59:19 AM): she's of legal age
SmokaJoka666 (9:59:21 AM): then you coo
ChrisBlack Lives (9:59:57 AM): I know, but you know how when a dime is just right there and she's 17 and you're like "wtf should I say?".
ChrisBlack Lives (10:00:02 AM): Overthinking and shit.
ChrisBlack Lives (10:00:07 AM): I need counseling.
ChrisBlack Lives (10:00:27 AM): I know what it is. . .
SmokaJoka666 (10:01:06 AM): you think she thinks you ugly
SmokaJoka666 (10:01:10 AM): that's exactly what it is
ChrisBlack Lives (10:01:41 AM): All my life, I've just said whatever the fuck comes to my mind and not gave a fuck what people thought. I have a dry sense of humor and normally if it turns someone off, I just say eat shit and die, but when It's a dope girl, I try to put a filter up when I'm not used to having a filter.
ChrisBlack Lives (10:01:49 AM): ^That's exactly what it is.
SmokaJoka666 (10:02:32 AM): you in love
ChrisBlack Lives (10:02:44 AM): I'll just do what I do and if she likes it, cool. If she doesn't rape is an option.
ChrisBlack Lives (10:02:50 AM): I don't believe in love.
SmokaJoka666 (10:04:00 AM): yessir you do
SmokaJoka666 (10:04:11 AM): you want that puerto rican's vagina
ChrisBlack Lives (10:05:10 AM): I'm pretty sure she's like black & spanish now. Her eyes are a little chinky so it might be black & korean. They make the best looking people on earth.
ChrisBlack Lives (10:05:36 AM): By spanish, I mean cracker spanish, not wetback spanish.
ChrisBlack Lives (10:05:45 AM): She has no wetback in her.
SmokaJoka666 (10:06:10 AM): smh, you racist mother fucker
ChrisBlack Lives (10:06:30 AM): And, yew, I want her vagina and every other orafice I can fit my joint into. Straight-up.
SmokaJoka666 (10:07:06 AM): then why aint you went for it
ChrisBlack Lives (10:07:16 AM): Although Jebus has a better body, Amber(her name) has one of the best faces I've ever seen.
ChrisBlack Lives (10:07:43 AM): Cause I need a strategy. That's my problem, I guess. I'm overthinking it.
ChrisBlack Lives (10:08:34 AM): I'm on my emo shit right now.
SmokaJoka666 (10:08:36 AM): well, what does she like
SmokaJoka666 (10:08:37 AM): she romantic
SmokaJoka666 (10:08:37 AM): or
SmokaJoka666 (10:08:37 AM): slutty in a way
ChrisBlack Lives (10:09:39 AM): Very quiet. I bet she likes that fairytale shit. She doesn't like small talk, which is similar to me. You could work with her all day and not hear her say anything unless she needs help with something. She's actually just like me when I was 17.
SmokaJoka666 (10:10:01 AM): then have deep conversations with her
SmokaJoka666 (10:10:04 AM): but that leads to love
SmokaJoka666 (10:10:11 AM): you just want to bang her
SmokaJoka666 (10:10:13 AM): you won't ever get it
SmokaJoka666 (10:10:15 AM): cuz you a slut
ChrisBlack Lives (10:10:45 AM): I'm not! I'd settle down if she has a decent personality, which I'm sure she does.
ChrisBlack Lives (10:11:05 AM): Introduce her to my mom and shit.
ChrisBlack Lives (10:11:36 AM): Now, I might still get head from a stripper or a happy ending from a chink but that shit don't count.
ChrisBlack Lives (10:11:44 AM): Plus, I'd tell her.
ChrisBlack Lives (10:12:19 AM): I should post this on RB.
SmokaJoka666 (10:12:53 AM): you should get her to post on RB
SmokaJoka666 (10:12:56 AM): and read your topicals
ChrisBlack Lives (10:13:12 AM): DEAD*

[CatasTrophy]

a theropist...Lmao!

...i hope she didnt spell that for you.

[®andom]

solid! My best friend whats up!

[Chris Black]

a theropist...Lmao!

...i hope she didnt spell that for you.

Pffffttttt. Spelling correctly isn't Hip-Hop. :realist:

[Daz]

lmfao@ having her sing on RB to read your topicals.


that's definately going to make her wanna drop those teenage panties.

i can see it now " Oh chris, i love the way you write a story about the government and black struggle. Imagery, Flow, Vocab. AMAZING. FUCKME! PLEASE, TAKE ME NOW YOU MIGHTY POET!

[Chris Black]

Word. Lmao. Smoka on that shit.

[optimus prime]

artists get pussy man..

Dont knock it...

[Daz]

yes. but not by telling females they're interested in to sign onto a rap forum and read their latest peice. LOL. she'd fuck around and laugh. Every female who has ever seen me ON RB thinks i'm weird because of it. Nigga i'm closet with this RB shit lol.


and no you shouldn't be turned away by her sexual past, G. most bitches lie anyway when thy tell you about who they've fucked. So at least she's keeping it real. You could be with a bitch who swears she's the virgin mary but everyone in a 30 mile radius of her house knows her name.

Ya'll niggaz got simple female problems. Ima make a thread about mine lol. My sht is a real problem.